Lovemaking with a transgender woman or shemale isn't just about intercourse. It also includes pre-performance foreplay, creating a fragile, sensitive connection between participants. This vulnerability makes us want to talk after making love. Do you feel the need to talk to a transgender woman after making love? Whether you have it or not, this article may also be useful for transgender women. Here are some things to avoid talking about so as not to ruin your tender moments with each other.
Don't mention your ex-partner or ex-transgender girlfriend
In a relationship, bringing up the past can only lead to problems, and if you bring it up in bed, the consequences can only get worse. That's why your transgender girlfriend doesn't like to be told about your ex and the way you make love with them. If you want to avoid hurting your partner's feelings and making them jealous, never mention what you did with your past partner.
Don't talk about negative sexual experiences when dating a transgender woman
Sure, healthy communication between partners is the key to a successful healthy relationship, and when couples get used to talking about lovemaking, their lovemaking life improves dramatically. Even so, no one wants to hear opinions and suggestions right after making love. If you do have any complaints, save them for a less vulnerable and intimate moment when you and your partner are more open to the discussion.
Don't talk negatively about how transgender women look
Imagine the situation; You and your partner have seen every inch of each other's skin and spent incredible intimate moments together. Is it really time to tell them they can lose a few pounds? If you don't want to argue, don't make any negative comments about how your partner looks in bed.
Don't talk about your future or plans for your marriage
You don't want to embarrass your transgender or shemale dating partner, do you? That's why you should avoid talking about your future and marriage after making love. Especially on a first date, because it makes your partner feel trapped. It would be much better to discuss these things in a more casual setting.
When you first date a transgender woman, don't admit your love
It's natural to say these three words after an orgasm when you're full of strong, strong feelings, but it's a bad idea to tell your partner you love them after you've gone to bed for the first time. In this case, the words sound hollow and can be uttered without emotion. It sounds like an impulse. There's nothing wrong with telling your partner that you love them, as long as they feel that you really love them. We all know that love is easy to say, but it is not easy to do. So when you're not sure that your actions make her feel loved, you might as well not say you do.